Leadership

A collection of 28 posts

Leadership

The Delegation Death Spiral

Managers think they're delegating. They're starting wars. They have a problem they don't want to think through. Without framework, direction or constraints, they hand it to someone else. Just "figure something out that I'll like." Staff think hard and return

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Ready Enough

"We need to be fully prepared before starting something important." Most people believe this. They're wrong. Think about planning dinner with friends: You check schedules You pick the perfect restaurant You make reservations Then reality hits: Someone runs late The restaurant loses your reservation The dish

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The Shadow Message

Your "metadata" speak louder than your words—especially in how you communicate. Every message you send has two layers: The words you choose. And the hidden metadata that reveals your true priorities. Your communication metadata includes: • Response time patterns • Channel selection • Time allocation • Communication frequency • Attention distribution These

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The Real Reason I Write

Most people think writing makes you smarter. They're wrong. Writing makes you realize how dumb you are. Every time I sit down to write, I discover new depths of my own ignorance. Things I thought I understood dissolve into confusion. Arguments I believed were solid crumble under scrutiny.

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The Clarity Tax

We've convinced ourselves that talking is faster than writing. It isn't. Think about your last meeting: "Can you clarify what we decided?" "That's not what I understood..." "Let me check my notes..." Important decisions bounce through endless meetings

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The Illusion of Clear Communication

You just finished a meeting. Everyone nodded in agreement. Then the follow-up emails arrive, and your heart sinks. Somehow, each person heard a completely different message. What you say matters far less than what others hear. This isn't a failure of communication — it's how communication works.

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Knowledge Isn't Numbers

Everyone collects data. Few understand how they learn from it. The difference between good and great data isn't information — it's metacognition. Here's what I mean: Two agencies track the same campaign metrics. The first uses data to adjust strategies. The second studies how it

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Intelligence In The Walls

Most companies get this backwards. They think intelligence flows from the top down. But the smartest organizations embed it in their walls. Look at Toyota's two-bin system — it manages inventory automatically, no managers needed. Or Google's testing frameworks that catch errors before humans do. Or hospital

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The Third Ear Principle

In 1962, during the Cuban Missile Crisis, Soviet submarine B-59 was ready to launch a nuclear torpedo. The standing order was that if three officers agreed, they could fire. Two said yes. But Captain Vasili Arkhipov did something different. He listened. Not just to words, but to what wasn'

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Stop Fixing, Start Refactoring

We call it "organizational baggage" and tell people to leave it at the door. But that's missing the point. What we label as baggage is actually cultural debt—accumulated over years within our teams and systems. It parallels technical debt in our codebases. Both are artifacts

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The Presence Paradox

We chase excellence to earn trust. But trust isn't earned through perfection... It's built in imperfect moments when we dare to stay together. In the end, it's simple: Character over competence.

Leadership

The Power of Not Knowing

"Let's workshop it." When I say these words, I watch shoulders relax. The pressure of having to figure it out alone lifts. No one person has to have all the answers. They bring their context: * The daily challenges * The technical constraints  * The team dynamics I bring

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The Power of Tactical Empathy

The armed man paced back and forth, weapon aimed at the hostages. He shouted at the negotiator outside, "I'm in control here!" But the veteran FBI negotiator didn't respond with threats or demands. Instead, he quietly said: "This seems stressful. Help me understand

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Who Owns the Answer?

I sat in the meeting room corner, resisting the urge to jump in. Two teams were stuck. Typically, leaders would come in with solutions. But today was different. Instead, we gathered the people who felt these challenges in their bones — the ones who faced these problems daily, felt the friction

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Our People Know What to Do

Watch what happens when a manager steps away. The team doesn't collapse. They don't stop. They start talking to each other. Start solving problems. Start building something better. Our people always knew what to do. We just had to let them be.

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The Handoff Moment

In the conference room this morning, I watched faces tighten as we discussed a client relationship at risk. The instinct was immediate — add more processes, create more checkpoints, layer on more reviews. But something wasn't quite right about that response. What if the answer wasn't more

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Your Tribe is the Strategy

The spreadsheet on my desk showed everything that should have mattered in my daughter's college choice — rankings, financials, programs, outcomes. But she was lost in Instagram, studying something else entirely. That's when I saw it: the pattern that changes everything about how we drive transformation. While

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The Table in the Room

In a famous scene from Men in Black, military candidates squeeze into tiny classroom chairs, struggling with oversized test papers. All except one: a candidate who simply drags a conference table across the room to create a proper writing surface. This moment captures a fundamental truth about modern business: we&

Strategy

Clarity Is Not An Event

Picture this: An eager CEO stands before her team, delivering what she believes is the perfect announcement. Her slides sparkle. Her logic flows. Every head nods in agreement — those automatic, noncommittal nods that every leader has learned to fear. Three months later, she's pulling her hair out: "

Marketing

Trust Speaks Human

It happens every time. In the fluorescent-lit shops and bustling restaurants of New York's Chinatown, Xiaomanyc's videos capture lightning in a bottle — that electric spark when two strangers truly connect. At first, we witness the familiar dance: a shop owner or restaurant worker barely looks up,

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The Uncomfortable Advantage

Most of us run from tension. We see it in the room - that moment when someone questions if we're really serving the client - and we deflect. We add complexity. We call another meeting. We're missing the point. Here's what happened in our

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The Hidden Pattern in 'I Don't Have Time'

Every time we say "I don't have time," we're telling ourselves a story. It's a story that makes perfect sense in the moment, but reveals something fascinating about how we think about time itself. There's a universal pattern in how

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The Standards Paradox: Why 'We Have Standards' Often Means 'We Don't'

"This isn't up to our standards." We've all heard it. We've all felt that sinking feeling. And if you've ever been brave enough to ask, "Okay, what exactly are our standards?" you've probably encountered the awkward

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The Most Radical Business Investment Isn't What You Think

I was in a team meeting last week and I said: "The best thing a company can do to go to the next level is to send their people to therapy." Silence... Then nervous laughter... Then something interesting happened: someone in the Google Meet nodded slowly and said,

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The One Management Truth We Keep Ignoring

Here's what they don't teach in leadership seminars: Power still works exactly as it always has. Sure, we've dressed it up in new language. We talk about collaborative leadership, servant leadership, flat hierarchies. The PowerPoint slides are beautiful, the consultants are well-paid, and everyone&